Keeping the fire.

You have been together a long time.

and the fire isnt out.

but its smoldering.

barely hanging on.

Men. That’s on you.

remember when you were dating?

when you went so far out of your way to impress her?

When was the last time you did that?

its on you.

think about the time and effort you would put in.

think about how closely you used to listen to her.

to what she wanted.

to what she needed.

if you dont feel happy about things.

ecstatic.

thats on you. not her.

that means you have stopped putting in the effort.

you have become very comfortable in a long relationship.

if comfortable is what you are after; good for you.

if you prefer ecstatic, well. thats exceptional.

but it is on you to find it.

to feel that again.

it isn’t on her. it’s on you.

so put in the effort again.